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Leadership effectiveness is often evaluated based on results, strategy, or intelligence. But long before those factors are fully understood, something else is already shaping your influence. Your presence. Before you speak in a meeting, before you present a plan, before you attempt to align a team around a goal, people are forming impressions. Research tells us first impressions can form in a matter of seconds; sometimes in less than one. That initial perception may not be perfectly accurate, but it is powerful in that it frames how others interpret everything that follows. That is why the Presence Dial inside the Integrus360 matters so much. Presence is not about charisma. It is not about personality type. And it is certainly not about performance. Presence is the combination of the energy and engagement you bring into a room, and the impact that energy has on others. When calibrated well, presence strengthens your leadership. When misaligned, it can quietly undermine your credibility & influence. When Presence Is Too Low Many leaders assume that if they are competent and committed, their influence will naturally follow. But competence alone does not guarantee credibility in the eyes of others. I have worked with highly intelligent, detail-oriented leaders who consistently scored lower on Presence. These were not weak leaders. They were disciplined. Focused. Task-driven. Their internal commitment was strong. But externally, their energy did not translate. To others, they sometimes appeared disengaged, reserved, or difficult to read. In some cases, team members interpreted their focus as indifference. In others, their lack of visible enthusiasm reduced confidence in their direction. None of that was intentional, yet leadership effectiveness is not determined by intention. It is shaped by perception. Because how others perceive your leadership is their reality. If your energy does not communicate belief, conviction, and engagement, people may hesitate to follow, even if your strategy is sound. Too little presence can limit your influence, not because you lack ability, but because others struggle to experience it. When Presence Is Too High The other end of the dial presents a different risk. Some leaders bring significant energy into a room. They are expressive, enthusiastic, and highly verbal. Their intent is often positive: to motivate, to inspire, to move things forward. But unmanaged presence can become overwhelming. High energy without awareness can dominate conversations. It can unintentionally crowd out quieter voices. It can create a dynamic where others feel talked over rather than invited in. In some cases, excessive enthusiasm can even be perceived as performative rather than authentic. When that happens, trust erodes. Presence is not about taking up space. It is about creating the right kind of space; one where others feel both energized and included. Too much presence can be just as limiting as too little. Presence Under Pressure Like every behavior measured in the Integrus360, your natural presence tendencies intensify under pressure. When stress increases, we do not become different leaders; we become amplified versions of ourselves. And sometimes it's our worst version. If your natural tendency is to withdraw, pressure may cause you to disengage further. Your focus may narrow to tasks and outcomes while relational signals diminish. If your tendency is toward intensity, pressure may elevate that intensity into overdrive. You may speak more quickly, interrupt more often, or push harder than the situation requires. It's not inherently wrong to have a higher or lower natural presence but when unmanaged, both can distort how others experience your leadership when it matters most. Pressure does not create presence problems. It reveals them. The Gap Between Intention and Experience One of the most important insights from the Presence Dial is this: how you believe you show up is not what determines your effectiveness. How others experience you does. You may believe you are passionate. Others may experience you as intense. You may believe you are steady and calm. Others may experience you as disengaged. You may believe you are motivating the team. Others may feel overshadowed. The size of the gap between intention and perception determines whether leadership effectiveness is either strengthened or weakened. Presence can make or break your ability to influence not because it defines who you are, but because it shapes how others respond to you. A Practical Step Forward The goal is not to change your personality. The goal is to align your behaviors so that your presence supports your leadership rather than limiting it. To help you begin that reflection, we created a simple one-page tool called the Presence Self Assessment Tool . It is designed to help you evaluate: The first impression you create The energy you consistently bring into rooms How you show up when the pressure increases Whether your presence invites engagement or restricts it Awareness is always the first step to any effective leadership growth. If presence can either strengthen or weaken your effectiveness, it is worth taking an honest look at how you are showing up. Download the Presence Self Awareness Tool , and evaluate how your presence is impacting your leadership today. Terry

What the Value of Time Dial Measures Leaders don’t stall because they lack vision. They stall because they lack awareness. After eight years of coaching with Integrus, I have seen this pattern play out again and again, especially around the Value of Time dial inside the Integrus 360 behavioral leadership profile. The Value of Time dial measures your internal pace and answers questions like these: How urgent are you? How fast does your internal clock run? Do you naturally push for outcomes, or do you move at a more relational, unhurried tempo? But, Value of Time is about more than productivity. It’s about your behavioral urgency and intensity and how your pace affects your influence, credibility, and the people around you. Some leaders run hot: pedal to the metal, always moving, always thinking about the next benchmark. Others are calm, steady, relational. They create space, don’t rush conversations, and resist artificial pressure. Neither wiring is wrong. Both bring tremendous strengths, but unmanaged, either one can become costly. The question isn’t, “Am I high or low?” The question is, “Is my wiring helping or hurting my team and/or the mission?” When Value of Time Is Low Low Value of Time leaders are often: Relational Creative Calm under pressure Present with people In pastoral care settings, this wiring can be a gift. You don’t want someone flying through a hospital ward like they’re clearing an inbox. But when unmanaged, low Value of Time can create: Vague expectations Missed deadlines Difficulty holding people accountable I started working with a particular senior leader who was drowning. They were running from fire to fire, doing work they could do but shouldn’t be doing, and all the while believing they had a high Value of Time because they were solving problems and tackling important issues. But, their Integrus360 data said otherwise. We worked together to identify the behaviors contributing to his overwhelm, aligning them and their team to ensure everyone spent their time on their highest-impact work. And everything changed. Months later, that leader texted: “I’m living my best leadership life.” Today, their team is thriving, benchmarks are being exceeded, and the mission is accelerating. Not because that leader's personality changed, but because they chose different behaviors. When Value of Time Is High On the other end of the spectrum, High Value of Time leaders: See the win quickly Push for outcomes Expect urgency Hate inefficiency Without leaders wired this way, innovation would stall (Electricity might not exist!), and organizations would drift. But again, unmanaged strengths can become constraints, and Value of Time that's too high can create: Chronic frustration Unrealistic timelines Team anxiety High turnover Another leader I had the privilege of working with had an urgency that was crushing their team. Turnover was high, expectations were unclear, and their team felt like nothing was ever enough. The leader wasn’t malicious. They were just moving so fast they forgot to make sure their team was keeping up with them. They assumed everyone else was wired like them and saw what they saw. They didn’t. After hearing about the challenges they faced in their leadership, I asked for their permission to be a truth-teller. "Of course!" they said. I was kind but direct, and told this leader, “You’re the problem. But the good news is you’re also part of the solution.” That was a turning point in their leadership. It didn't happen overnight, in fact it took months to experience the full effect of his intentionality, but this leader adjusted their leadership behavior and saw a significant decrease in his team's frustration and anxiety. In fact, turnover dropped by 90%! Same wiring, healthy leadership behaviors. Pressure Reveals Your Default Under pressure, we don’t become someone new; our leadership behaviors are exaggerated. Leaders tend to revert to their default when the pressure is on, even if we have done the work to manage their constraints into healthy behaviors. Low Value of Time leaders may slow down and get stuck when stress rises. Sometimes their default is to stay busy doing anything instead of making sure they're doing the most important things. In contrast, when pressure rises around High Value of Time leaders, they may accelerate urgency and intensity, leaving their team behind, or worse, destroying their team in pursuit of accomplishing the mission. An unhealthy Value of Time doesn’t just affect productivity. It affects morale. Retention. Credibility. And ultimately, the mission. Most leaders don’t realize how their behavior shifts when stress rises. Even after reading this, many leaders might assume this doesn't apply to them because every leader has blind spots. We assume we’re steady. We assume we’re clear. We assume we’re consistent. But because pressure has a way of amplifying patterns we don’t always see, we created a simple one-page tool to help you uncover how stress may be shaping your urgency, clarity, communication, and expectations. Download the free Pressure Pattern Map and discover your default pattern under stress. It takes just a few minutes, and the insight could change how you lead the next high-pressure moment and save years of influence. What’s the Cost of Ignoring This? Choosing to ignore leadership constraints is definitely a choice you're free to make. But every decision has a cost/reward ratio, and the cost of ignoring an unhealthy Value of Time far exceeds the rewards. It will cost you personally. It will cost your relationally. It will cost your organization. And at the highest level, it will cost you your mission. Because when you’re overwhelmed and burning out, the mission suffers. If your urgency is driving talent away, the mission suffers. And, if your lack of clarity creates confusion, the mission suffers. Leaders don’t stall because they lack vision. They stall because they lack awareness. If this message resonates with you, it may be time to see what your data says. Complete your Integrus 360 and discover how your behaviors align with high-performing leaders in your field. And if it's been more than 18 months since you have completed your 360, it's time to update your data. Because circumstances change, leaders grow, and your data evolves with you.

This year, I’ve watched more leaders wrestle with pressure, uncertainty, and burnout than ever before. It’s easy to think we’ll find peace once things finally calm down. But that’s not how peace works. Peace doesn’t come when circumstances change. It comes when gratitude changes us. I learned that lesson years ago when God used gratitude to break the grip of anxiety on my life. Since then, I’ve seen how gratitude transforms individuals and entire teams alike. Grateful leaders create grounded cultures, and spread calm instead of chaos; peace instead of pressure. As 2025 wraps up, I’m revisiting that lesson and sharing it again. You can read the full story and download a free reflection tool to help you close out the year with gratitude and clarity. Read the full post: Gratitude Makes Good Leaders Great Download the free 2025 End of Year Reflection Guide for Leaders Take a few minutes to slow down, look back, and thank God for the ways He’s shown up this year. Gratitude really does make good leaders great.

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My prayer life as a leader has had its ups and downs. There are times when: I've prayed timidly, which is surprising because I am not a timid person. I've prayed feeling unworthy, even though I know in my heart that I am worthy to approach the throne of grace with boldness. Sometimes I wonder, "Who am I to ask for this?" I've prayed burdened, feeling the weight of the world's troubles and wondering if my personal requests are even valid. As we kick off a new year and launch our 30 Days of Prayer, I'm curious what your prayer life is like. Are you praying timidly, unworthily, or burdened? Or, are you praying with power, expectancy, and delight? And the harder question: Are you praying for your leadership, at work, or even in the midst of your work? Lately, I've realized that the most powerful leaders in Scripture were devoted to prayer. Hannah, from 1 Samuel 1 is a prime example. Hannah knew: The anguish of infertility. The pain of a broken heart The shame that comes with a body that does not cooperate with your deepest hopes. The mistreatment of a family member. The impact weak spiritual leadership could have in her country. The isolation of suffering in a society driven by evil. The feelings of worthless in a culture that didn’t value her. The confusion of prayers seemingly going unanswered. And yet, Hannah knew how to bring all her struggles to God in prayer.

“Not all readers are leaders, but all leaders are readers.” Harry S. Truman Researchers have analyzed dozens of metrics, and time and time again, the results say the same thing: what separates the good leaders from the great leaders is their commitment to reading. If you want to improve your leadership skills, develop a healthy team, or foster a growth-oriented culture in your organization, start reading leadership books that will help lead yourself, lead a team, or lead an organization. Why Reading Makes Leaders Great Reading expands your viewpoint. In a way, reading books sits you down in front of the author, like a student before the teacher, as they tell you their story and impart their learned knowledge and wisdom. Reading sharpens your problem-solving skills. Julius Caesar is quoted as saying, “experience is the best teacher,” but we disagree; someone else’s experience is the best teacher! When we learn from the wins and losses of those who have gone before us, exposing the problems they have already solved (or not), it helps us analyze information more effectively. Reading fuels creativity and innovation. Books connect us with people who we might otherwise never have the opportunity to learn from, injecting fresh concepts and ideas into stale and stagnant thought patterns. Reading also equips leaders to adapt to change and embrace new strategies because “learning” sits at the core of reading. Reading triggers something inside us that says, “I’m open to new ideas,” readying ourselves for change. Our Staff’s Top Picks The Integrus team has put together a list of our top picks. We’re committed to providing you with insanely practical tools and resources to assist you on your leadership journey, and this list will help you get started on your reading journey to becoming a great leader. We’ve divided the list into 3 categories. These books will help you: lead yourself, lead others, and lead your organization. These books would also make great gifts or stocking stuffers. So, if you’re not sure what to get the leaders in your life for Christmas, this list will give you some ideas. Each of the books on this list have helped our team grow into healthy leaders who make up an effective team, so I am confident they will help you, too. Click the link below to view the 2025 Reading List our website. We’ve creating a page with all of these books linked directly to an online store. Our hope is that this makes it even easier for you to dip your toe in the pool of knowledge that awaits you.

Just days ago, I crossed the finish line of the New York City Marathon, and I’m still riding the high of that experience—medal and all! After eight years of running and five dedicated months of training for this race, I faced unexpected challenges, including a foot injury that nearly sidelined me. These obstacles gave me deeper insights into leadership, lessons I’m excited to share with you. Patience and Persistence Matter Leadership, much like marathon training, is not a sprint. It’s easy to look at leaders and assume that progress is quick and linear, but the reality is often far different. Progress can be slow, non-linear, and full of unexpected twists and turns. During my training, there were days when progress felt almost nonexistent. Yet, those were the moments that mattered most—when I had to push through fatigue, self-doubt, and setbacks. True leaders understand that lasting success comes from staying the course, even when the path forward is uncertain and demanding. Setbacks Are Part of the Journey In both marathons and leadership, setbacks are inevitable. For me, it was a foot injury that flared up weeks before race day. In leadership, it might be unforeseen complications, such as strained resources or processes that don’t go as planned. These challenges can feel discouraging, but great leaders learn to pivot, adapt, and find creative solutions. Setbacks build resilience, and this resilience becomes the fuel that propels you toward future triumphs. Each challenge I overcame during my training helped me build mental and physical endurance for race day—and the same is true for leadership. Celebrate the Small Wins Marathons are long, and reaching each mile marker brings its own sense of achievement. Passing the 5-mile mark, reaching the halfway point, and finally seeing the finish line were moments I celebrated, even if just with a mental cheer. The same principle applies to leadership: every milestone, no matter how small, deserves recognition. These moments of celebration keep your team motivated and energized. They remind everyone that progress is happening, and that acknowledgment helps sustain the team’s drive toward bigger goals. As a leader, it’s essential to create an environment where small wins are appreciated and celebrated. While I know some of you, like my friend Kat, may joke that you'd only run if someone were chasing you, the lessons I took from the NYC Marathon extend far beyond running. I hope these insights inspire you to lead with patience, embrace resilience during challenges, and find joy in celebrating progress—whether you’re striving to complete a major organizational project or pursuing personal growth. Leadership, like marathon training, is a journey that tests us in countless ways, but the lessons along the way make all the difference. Keep pushing forward, celebrate the journey, and know that each step takes you closer to your finish line.